OK, so far in my series of tips on how to experience CFNM in real life I have concentrated on trying to get ordinary, everyday women to see you naked. However, the bottom line is that this does take some effort so if you aren’t willing / able / inclined to put any effort in then you will find many of the methods I have explained so far don’t work for you. BUT . . there is an alternative – cold hard CASH! Now just because I am suggesting getting money involved doesn’t mean we are “faking” the experience or only talking about hookers / prostitutes / escorts – far from it! Let me explain . . . Continue Reading »
OK, I was holding off on this one because it really only applies to guys who are in reasonable shape and not too ugly, but here goes . .
One of the problems with getting women to watch a guy walk around naked is their natural cautiousness. If you approach them and say “do you mind if I get my cock out?” you will find a lot of them run in the opposite direction. One way of getting around this is to arrange a situation where it would be normal (and indeed part of the evening’s activities) for the guy to be naked. Realistically CFNM parties happen very rarely BUT women go to ladies nights on a regular basis. Before I go any further let me explain that this isn’t just an “idea” I thought might work – I have actually done this myself so for the rest of this post I will explain what I actually did to make this happen and you can see if you can follow suit. Continue Reading »
OK, so I have so far given you a few tips on how to enjoy CFNM on webcam and how to then try to move those webcam experiences into real-life meetings and experiences. However, I will be honest and say that it will take a lot of dedication and adjusting your approach / technique to get any women to agree to let you strip naked in front of them in real life. Let’s get real here – women in real life will be suspicious and wary if a guy asks to strip naked for them. It is doable but not easy. However, there is one sure fire way that you can have a fantastic CFNM experience in real life with VERY attractive young girls – join PureCFNM and take part in one of their scenes.
PureCFNM.Com is probably the best known and one of the longest running CFNM sites on the internet. It has been the number one site in the niche for several years for one very simple reason – the guy that runs it understands CFNM. He was apparently a CFNM fan himself and started the site because he was fed up of not seeing any good quality, realistic CFNM content on the internet – the rest, as they say, is history, and PureCFNM is now the number one site for anyone interested in the genre. What a lot of you may not know however, is that PureCFNM uses mainly ordinary every amateur guys in their scenes. The owner of PureCFNM says the realism of his scenes is part of what people like about the site and therefore he prefers to use normal guys who are interested in CFNM, rather than adult industry actors. Continue Reading »
OK, from my previous tips you have hopefully now got a few women that you have chatted to on-line and you have maybe even stripped for them on cam. This either then involved them giving you their opinion on your body and “equipment” or maybe you even went as far as playing with yourself for them. Providing the wanking was instigated in the right way and either approved or encouraged by them then it’s not a bad thing. You can always say afterwards how embarrassed you are and that you have never done anything like that for anyone else, etc . . which will help because she will feel special and that she somehow has power to make you do things.
Anyway, if they like your body and the show you put on for them then the ultimate goal for you is to do the same show for them in real life – not just on the webcam.
Be careful how you suggest this though because most women (quite rightly) will have their security paramount in their mind and won’t just invite a stranger round their house because he has a nice looking cock. Make sure you get chatting to them for a bit before you suggest this so you can win their confidence (and don’t betray it obviously – I am giving you these tips so you can enjoy CFNM fun NOT so you can con your way into people’s houses!). Say something like “I am really pleased you liked my show, I am still keen on being a male stripper but I have never done anything like that in front of a real person and I am not sure what it would be like as it is more personal than on a webcam – I really need to find someone willing to watch me in real life next.” If you have put the ground work in and she trusts you then there’s the possibility she will offer her services. Sounds unlikely? Well I can tell you for a fact that in the last two years alone I have visited the houses of over a dozen women that I have met on-line, stripped for on webcam and then ended up stripping for them in real life at their houses. This wouldn’t have happened if they had thought I was in any way dodgy or untrustworthy so I managed to create that trust before I suggested it. Let me tell you what happened the first time I did a real life strip at one of these women’s houses (and it’s a 100% true story):- Continue Reading »
OK, so in Tip #1 I explained what equipment you needed to be able to show your body off to girls on-line, and I also showed you how to do it with some of the gorgeous girls from the CFNM Cam Girls website. If you haven’t read Tip #1 yet, please do so and follow the instructions before trying the tips in this post.
In today’s tip I am going to explain how you can get ordinary everyday women to watch you on-line.
As I said in the previous post, the first thing we have to do is make sure that the person watching is happy to do so. But once we have ascertained this, there is a lot of fun and thrills to be had by exposing yourself to women on-line. However, the easy part is turning your cam on and taking your clothes off – the hard part is finding women who are happy to watch (without paying them – lol!).
There are two main places that I go to find women to watch me on my cam. You can either go to webcam communities or you can try dating and social networking websites. Let’s start with webcam communities:- Continue Reading »
OK, so let’s get some things straight . . when trying to experience CFNM in real life you have to be careful. Not all women think the sight of your naked body is as exciting as you do, so you can’t go round flashing your tackle at any old person or you will end up in jail pretty quickly – lol!
We want this to be fun and exciting, but we also want it to be safe, so the first rule is make sure the person you are exposing yourself to isn’t going to get upset.
If you are starting out and want to try a CFNM situation for the first time I would highly recommend getting your feet wet on-line first. The reasons for this are that it’s safer and you can easily stop at any time if you feel uncomfortable.
It might seem like a wonderful idea when you are at home alone having a wank, but taking your clothes off for the first time in front of a clothed woman in real life (especially if you don’t know her) is a VERY different thing and conjurs up lots of feelings and emotions – some of which you would have expected and other you wouldn’t. Continue Reading »
OK, so to get the “CFNM Tips” section started I thought I would tell you how I first got interested in CFNM and the real-life experience behind it.
The first time I realised what CFNM was around 2003 when I stumbled across it on the internet. HOWEVER, without me even realising it, I actually discovered many years earlier when I was only 13 years old. Looking back on what happened, it was clear to me that I had had a CFNM experience – it was just I never knew it until I found out what CFNM was many years later.
So what happened? Well, you may not find it overly hardcore but it is real and it happened and it was a big turn-on – even then at 13! What is worth noting in this story is that the way in which it happened can easily be replicated in every day life – so keep your whits about you and something like this could even happen to you.
So I was 13 and playing in the soccer team. We were playing an away match against another school and so we were in a strange locker room that I hadn’t been in before. I had played really well but pulled up with cramp 10 minutes before the end so was hobbling about. As a result I was well behind the other guys in getting showered and changed. The last guy, I remember his name was Simon, shouted to me to hurry up as they were all on the coach already and then he left and I was on my own. I was standing there with my underwear on only and was just about to put my trousers on when I heard girls voices outside. My immediate reaction (I was 13 remember!) was panic and I quickly pulled my trousers up. I stood there on my own for a minute or so and I heard the voices getting nearer. I don’t know what happened or why I did it buy I dropped my trousers again so I was just there in my underwear. Continue Reading »
