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		<title>Tip #6 &#8211; You Can Always Pay For A CFNM Experience</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Nov 2010 09:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, so far in my series of tips on how to experience CFNM in real life I have concentrated on trying to get ordinary, everyday women to see you naked. However, the bottom line is that this does take some effort so if you aren&#8217;t willing / able / inclined to put any effort in then you will find many of the methods I have explained so far don&#8217;t work for you. BUT . . there is an alternative &#8211; cold hard CASH! Now just because I am suggesting getting money involved doesn&#8217;t mean we are &#8220;faking&#8221; the experience or only talking about hookers / prostitutes / escorts &#8211; far from it! Let me explain . . . <span id="more-897"></span><br />
The internet is rife with online personals and other such directories. On these directories are LOTS or girls and women of different ages who are willing to watch you strip and wank in real life &#8211; in return for cash. Some of them will even be willing to give you a handjob too! I have had luck with online personals such as Craigslist and Gumtree in the past but unfortunately both these have now closed their adult sections &#8211; but there are plenty more, you just need to have a hunt around. In the past, a simple posting on Gumtree has netted me half a dozen good quality, everyday women who just needed an extra 50 pounds that week to pay for the shopping or buy a new dress or whatever. They weren&#8217;t escorts and often had never done anything like it before &#8211; but it was extremely exciting. Even though I handed over 50 quid at the beginning, it was intensely exciting to see the looks on their faces as I stripped off and started playing &#8211; and some of them even got involved and gave me a helping hand to cum &#8211; fantastic!<br />
If you can&#8217;t find / don&#8217;t want to search for any online personals and put out ads, etc . . then you can always hire an escort. Escorts don&#8217;t always have to have sex and in fact they are over the moon at the idea of having a paid session with a guy where they don&#8217;t get fucked &#8211; a lot of them are actually very good at the controlling aspect of CFNM. My suggestion is to let them know there will be no sex and you just want a handjob / blowjob as they sometimes offer cheaper rates for this. Also let them know in advance exactly what you want from the session &#8211; i.e. explain CFNM to them so they don&#8217;t take all their clothes off halfway through and ruin it &#8211; lol!<br />
With escorts you normally get what you pay for so if you are paying about £100 ($150) for an hour then she is probably a bog standard girl &#8211; but if you&#8217;re paying £200 ($300) for the hour then you can expect a much higher quality girl. There are lots of escort agencies on-line &#8211; just search for escorts + your area in Google.<br />
Obviously I am not condoning anything illegal so if using an escort is not allowed where you live, you need to take that into consideration. But certainly, there are plenty of girls / women out there who would be happy to watch and even wank you off for a few extra bucks . . happy hunting!<br />
(and don&#8217;t forget to post any experiences back here so others know how you got on)</p>
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		<title>Tip #5 &#8211; Organise A Charity Ladies Night</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 09:30:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[That's the key really to a successful CFNM experience - make sure that all parties involved enjoy themselves. Try the above suggestion - it worked for me to get a real life CFNM experience in front of A LOT of women. Just remember to be professional at all times (if you can get a woman to organise something like this then you must make sure she doesn't suspect you are doing it just to get your cock out in front of her and her friends - yes, that's the end goal but you can do it in a way that they get what they want out of it as well). Be professional and act as if the success of the night is your only goal and before you know it you will be prancing around in front of a load of women completely naked! ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, I was holding off on this one because it really only applies to guys who are in reasonable shape and not too ugly, but here goes . .<br />
One of the problems with getting women to watch a guy walk around naked is their natural cautiousness. If you approach them and say &#8220;do you mind if I get my cock out?&#8221; you will find a lot of them run in the opposite direction. One way of getting around this is to arrange a situation where it would be normal (and indeed part of the evening&#8217;s activities) for the guy to be naked. Realistically CFNM parties happen very rarely BUT women go to ladies nights on a regular basis. Before I go any further let me explain that this isn&#8217;t just an &#8220;idea&#8221; I thought might work &#8211; I have actually done this myself so for the rest of this post I will explain what I actually did to make this happen and you can see if you can follow suit. <span id="more-405"></span><br />
I was using my usual lines on the internet (see previous tips) about being a &#8220;wannabe&#8221; male stripper and some women on the dating sites had replied and were interested. One of them mentioned to me how great it would be if she could organise an event with me as the main attraction and get all her friends to come along and raise money for a charity she did a lot of work for locally. I told her it was a great idea and we should organise it. One thing led to another and pretty soon we were dicussing dates and venues.<br />
Basically I let her pick the venue and organise the women to come along and we agreed a mutually convenient date (a Friday night in September a few years ago). I sent her a few pictures of myself showing off my body but covering anything too rude and she produced some flyers and got the word around. I think she charged £5 (about $9 USD I think) for the women to get in and they then paid for their own drinks. I promised her I would be there with three other male strippers and we would put on a 10 minute striptease each with half hour intervals between each of us. Obviously, I am not a male stripper myself and I didn&#8217;t know any but I put some adverts on the internet and very soon had guys e-mailing me wanting to be inolved. I picked three of the younger and fairly fit looking guys to join me (none of them had any dancing / stripping experience though I would point out) and we exchanged e-mails back and forth before the event so I could try to get them organised. We each purchased or made our own costumes and finally the day arrived.<br />
My lady friend from the internet had done very well selling tickets and over 100 women turned up on the night. She was over the moon because they made more for her charity in one night than they usually did in a year. After about 45 minutes of drinking time, I sent our first guy on (the most confident of us all) and he did a reasonable job of dancing and undressing to a song he had practiced at home. It wasn&#8217;t polished or professional but the women seemed to find it amusing and the guy was thrilled because he got to prance around with his cock out in front of 100 women all taking pictures of him. The next guy went on about 20 minutes later and I was getting more nervous that it was my turn next. I downed a couple of lagers very quickly and went to get changed.<br />
Although I was terrified I knew when the music started I could do nothing but get on with it. I am not the best looking guy in the world and my body is only average but when I started undressing the women (probably thanks to the drink) were screaming away. When I got down to my strippers thong (purchased for about $15 off the internet), one of the girls jumped out of her seat and tried to rip it off! I had practiced a routine which involved me standing on a chair and unveiling for the world so I managed to get her seated again and then as I whipped off my thong and all the girls cheered I felt an amazing sense of freedom and confidence. I moved between the tables for the next 5 minutes gyrating away and getting regular gropes of my cock nd smacks of my ass. Several women asked me to hold still so they could take close up photos of my cock on their phones and digital cameras. All too quickly it was over and I went back stage again (I say back stage, we were basically getting changed in the men&#8217;s toilets of the bar function room we had hired). As I was getting my breath back again a few girls pushed the door open for another look at me standing there naked (the girls toilets were next to the mens). I was really hoping I would get some after show action but sadly one of the other guys then came in to say well done and the girls walked out.<br />
Anyway, the fourth guy went on and did a great job (he was drunk by this stage so had no inhibitions whatsoever &#8211; lol!) and the whole evening was a great success. Us four guys got to strip off and parade around naked in front of 100 women . . . the female organiser made lots of money for her charity . . and the women in the audience had a few drinks and a fun night out.<br />
That&#8217;s the key really to a successful CFNM experience &#8211; make sure that all parties involved enjoy themselves. Try the above suggestion &#8211; it worked for me to get a real life CFNM experience in front of A LOT of women. Just remember to be professional at all times (if you can get a woman to organise something like this then you must make sure she doesn&#8217;t suspect you are doing it just to get your cock out in front of her and her friends &#8211; yes, that&#8217;s the end goal but you can do it in a way that they get what they want out of it as well). Be professional and act as if the success of the night is your only goal and before you know it you will be prancing around in front of a load of women completely naked! If you can&#8217;t dance then try suggesting a charity &#8220;Butlers In The Buff&#8221; evening where the guys are naked and &#8220;wait&#8221; on the women all night , serving them drinks, etc . . Use your imagination!<br />
And before you ask, yes I did get some action out of that night &#8211; not actually on the night funnily enough &#8211; but a girl came up to me afterwards and gave me her phone number (sadly I was fully clothed again by this time). We text messaged each other for a few days and then ended up meeting up and having sex &#8211; so it was all worth it in the end! <img src='http://www.cfnmking.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Tip #4 &#8211; PureCFNM Allows Members To Take Part For Real</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2009 09:30:48 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, so I have so far given you a few tips on how to enjoy CFNM on webcam and how to then try to move those webcam experiences into real-life meetings and experiences. However, I will be honest and say that it will take a lot of dedication and adjusting your approach / technique to get any women to agree to let you strip naked in front of them in real life. Let&#8217;s get real here &#8211; women in real life will be suspicious and wary if a guy asks to strip naked for them. It is doable but not easy. However, there is one sure fire way that you can have a fantastic CFNM experience in real life with VERY attractive young girls &#8211; join PureCFNM and take part in one of their scenes.<br />
PureCFNM.Com is probably the best known and one of the longest running CFNM sites on the internet. It has been the number one site in the niche for several years for one very simple reason &#8211; the guy that runs it understands CFNM. He was apparently a CFNM fan himself and started the site because he was fed up of not seeing any good quality, realistic CFNM content on the internet &#8211; the rest, as they say, is history, and PureCFNM is now the number one site for anyone interested in the genre. What a lot of you may not know however, is that PureCFNM uses mainly ordinary every amateur guys in their scenes. The owner of PureCFNM says the realism of his scenes is part of what people like about the site and therefore he prefers to use normal guys who are interested in CFNM, rather than adult industry actors. <span id="more-310"></span><br />
If you check out the following page on their website it explains how they use ordinary every day guys and how to apply:-</p>
<p>http://www.purecfnm.com/models.html</p>
<p>There are a few tips I can give you on how to ingratiate yourself to the owner of PureCFNM and actually get into a scene &#8211; how do I know this? &#8211; well, I have actually done a scene for PureCFNM but I am not going to tell you which one &#8211; lol! All I will say is that it was quite a while ago and I thoroughly enjoyed it. The three girls were VERY sexy and I had to think of the most unsexy thoughts I could to last more than a few minutes &#8211; lol! It was good fun and if it hadn&#8217;t been such a long journey from where I live to where they normally do their shooting then I would have been back many times since. But anyway, enough about me, you want to know how to get into a scene . . .<br />
Firstly, being a member of the site gives you a massive advantage. The guy who owns PureCFNM feels like he should reward his members and tries to use them ahead of non-members whenever he can.<br />
Secondly, when you apply, you get sent a list of four very simple instructions. Fail to comply with any of these and you&#8217;re application is history. After all, if you can&#8217;t follow four simple instructions what are the chances of you actually turning up at the shoot on time? So when you get sent the list of information required, send it ALL back to them (it&#8217;s only a pic, general location and mobile number so it&#8217;s not exactly rocket science).<br />
Thirdly, if you are lucky enough to get selected for a scene, turn up! PureCFNM gets inundated with people wanting to be in their scenes and, again, the owner told me that if he organises a guy for a shoot and he doesn&#8217;t turn up, then he doesn&#8217;t get a second chance. I&#8217;ve seen guys do five or six scenes for PureCFNM already (with different girls each time the lucky gits) so it&#8217;s definitely worth following instructions and keeping in with them.<br />
Fourthly, be prepared to put yourself out a bit. When I was chatting to the owner of PureCFNM when I went for that shoot he told me it was amazing how often he gets e-mails from guys who say they are desperate to be in a CFNM scene for his site &#8211; but only if it&#8217;s filmed within 20 miles of where they live. PureCFNM shoots in London and the south east of England. If you don&#8217;t live there then be prepared to travel there if you want to be in a scene for them. A really good tip I got told that day was that PureCFNM especially likes applications from guys who are willing to travel down the night before the shoot &#8211; and when I think about it, this makes perfect sense as you are unlikely not to turn up if you have already travelled a fair distance the day before. So if you don&#8217;t live in London or the South East of England, at least make PureCFNM aware that you will travel down the night before if necessary.<br />
Fifthly, make it clear that you don&#8217;t mind your face being shown on the internet. They apparently get a lot of applications from guys who want to keep their face hidden &#8211; and again these apparently go straight in the rubbish bin. Its simple really &#8211; if you want to be in a PureCFNM scene you need to accept the fact that your face will get seen on the internet. If you don&#8217;t want this to happen, don&#8217;t apply. Offers to wear disguises, wigs and masks go straight in the bin as well apparently.<br />
And finally, don&#8217;t underestimate what it will be like. It&#8217;s easy sitting at home with your cock in your hand watching a PureCFNM scene and imagining yourself in that situation. It&#8217;s a very different one when you are actually there and a gorgeous girl wraps her hand around your cock and you think &#8220;shit, I&#8217;m going to explode any second and we&#8217;ve only just started!&#8221; Equally, when I was there one of the other guys (who was really cocky and arrogant when he turned up) went the opposite way and got &#8220;camera fright&#8221; and couldn&#8217;t get an erection. He later said that he had been wanking like crazy at the thought of being in the scene with those girls and then wasn&#8217;t prepared for when it actually happened.<br />
So there&#8217;s some good tips on how to get yourself into a PureCFNM scene and how to enjoy it when you are there. If you aren&#8217;t worried about the face-showing aspect of it then I would definitely recommend it. The girls are gorgeous, the guy who runs the site is a really nice guy and you will have a very fun day out, not to mention probably the most memorable CFNM experience of your life!</p>
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		<title>Tip #3 &#8211; What Happens When I Meet These Women In Real Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 08:30:38 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, from my previous tips you have hopefully now got a few women that you have chatted to on-line and you have maybe even stripped for them on cam. This either then involved them giving you their opinion on your body and &#8220;equipment&#8221; or maybe you even went as far as playing with yourself for them. Providing the wanking was instigated in the right way and either approved or encouraged by them then it&#8217;s not a bad thing. You can always say afterwards how embarrassed you are and that you have never done anything like that for anyone else, etc . . which will help because she will feel special and that she somehow has power to make you do things.<br />
Anyway, if they like your body and the show you put on for them then the ultimate goal for you is to do the same show for them in real life &#8211; not just on the webcam.<br />
Be careful how you suggest this though because most women (quite rightly) will have their security paramount in their mind and won&#8217;t just invite a stranger round their house because he has a nice looking cock. Make sure you get chatting to them for a bit before you suggest this so you can win their confidence (and don&#8217;t betray it obviously &#8211; I am giving you these tips so you can enjoy CFNM fun NOT so you can con your way into people&#8217;s houses!). Say something like &#8220;I am really pleased you liked my show, I am still keen on being a male stripper but I have never done anything like that in front of a real person and I am not sure what it would be like as it is more personal than on a webcam &#8211; I really need to find someone willing to watch me in real life next.&#8221; If you have put the ground work in and she trusts you then there&#8217;s the possibility she will offer her services. Sounds unlikely? Well I can tell you for a fact that in the last two years alone I have visited the houses of over a dozen women that I have met on-line, stripped for on webcam and then ended up stripping for them in real life at their houses. This wouldn&#8217;t have happened if they had thought I was in any way dodgy or untrustworthy so I managed to create that trust before I suggested it. Let me tell you what happened the first time I did a real life strip at one of these women&#8217;s houses (and it&#8217;s a 100% true story):- <span id="more-224"></span><br />
I had met Jan on one of the dating sites in my usual fashion. I had messaged her because she lived within an hour of my house and was only a few years older than me, &#8220;single and looking&#8221;. I messaged her about wanting to be a stripper and she said she would watch me and let me know what she thought. Anyway, to cut a long story short, I did the webcam strip for her on a Sunday afternoon with her watching on her webcam (so I got to see what she looked like as well &#8211; not a stunner, but certainly not ugly either &#8211; a standard separated housewife type really). I could see her face light up as I stripped off and she obviouly thought my package was a good size as her face looked impressed. She seemed to enjoy it so much that I carried on chatting to her standing there naked and I suggested that the next &#8220;big&#8221; step for my career would be to strip in real life for someone. To my amazement and excitement she volunteered immediately! Rather than me counting my lucky stars, it was her who kept saying &#8220;so you would really come round my place and do the same full monty show I just saw?&#8221; I told her she would be doing me a favour, acting as a practice audience and after checking how far away I lived she asked me if I was free to come round right then! I tried to look hesitant but eagerly said yes and she gave me the address and I got myself ready and jumped in the car.<br />
When I arrived, she seemed really nice -as I said, she was no stunner, but had a really nice flirty way about her. We chatted a bit nervously and she got us some wine and said she couldn&#8217;t believe I was actually there and how excited she was. I tried to play it cool but I was VERY nervous. She showed me her CD collection and I picked out a CD and put it on and told her to get on the couch and relax (I took her wine and put it out the way before I started as I planned on her needing her hands!) I had worn standard clothes, not any sort of special costume, but I did have my special strippers thong on that I had ordered on-line. These are great for really exaggerating the size of your package so I highly recommend them!<br />
I started dancing in front of her and she giggled nervously. When I started undoing my shirt and took it off her eyes were glued. As I undid my trousers and she saw the thong her eyes nearly burst out of her head &#8211; because this was my first time doing this I was quite excited and my cock was fully hard and bulging against the thin thong material which she could plainly see. It got me even more hard to see her eyes glued to my groin with an amazed smile on her face. I took my trousers off and danced in front of her with just the thong on &#8211; judging by her face she was loving the view so I decided to be daring and turned around and grabbed her hands and placed them on my ass.<br />
I was worried this would put her off but it did exactly the opposite! She started giving my ass a good fondle and before I knew what was happening I felt her hand on the front of my thong. As she touched my bulge I heard her say &#8220;wow and this nearly made me shoot right there and then. I turned to face her and watched as she placed her hands on my thong again and fully fondled my cock through the thing material. I asked her if I would do well as a stripper and she said I would earn a fortune, giggling as she carried on rubbing. I took a step back and grabbed the two sides of the thong which had velcro attachments on them. I watched her face as I pulled the velcro and my cock sprang loose for the first time. Her eyes lit up and she bit her lip as I threw tht thong away and gyrated there in front of her completely naked.<br />
I slowly danced nearer and nearer to her and once I was within reach she didn&#8217;t hesitate in reaching out and grabbing my cock with her hand again. This time she started to slowly stroke it and I stopped dancing and let out a little sigh of pleasure. She looked up at me and giggled, then pulled me forward and took me in her mouth! I couldn&#8217;t believe this was actually happening &#8211; some strange woman that I had never met until a few hours earlier had invited me round, watched me strip naked and was now giving me a blowjob. She had obviously enjoyed the show because she really started to get into it and looked up at me and said &#8220;you don&#8217;t mind do you?&#8221; before carrying on sucking. I am not ashamed to say that I didn&#8217;t last long. As I felt my orgasm building I told her I was about to cum in case she didn&#8217;t want me to cum in her mouth but she only sucked harder and I felt myself ejaculate down her throat as she sucked every last drop from my cock. It was pure heaven!<br />
As my orgasm subsided I must admit I felt a bit silly, standing there naked with my cock in the mouth of a woman I didn&#8217;t know, but she patted me on the bottom and told me I had done a wonderful job. I will be honest, I didn&#8217;t stay long after that but I wanted to keep the door open for future sessions and told her what a wonderful time I had had and that I didn&#8217;t normally get that excited with other women, etc . . she told me to keep in touch and maybe next time she would get some friends round.<br />
The above story is 100% true and I have had other adventures with girls I have met in real life after stripping for them on cam. As I said, I am 100% honest on this blog so I will admit to you that not all my private strips ended in sexual action. Some of the women did actually just want me to strip, give their opinion on my physiqye and then have me leave &#8211; which I did, because you should ALWAYS respect the woman&#8217;s wishes. But even those ones aroused me enough that I had a fantastic wank when I got home afterwards thinking about how this strange woman had seen my cock.</p>
<p>If you manage to have any real life CFNM situations please post your experiences here as comments &#8211; if they are long enough / interesting enough I can always add them as a post in their own right on this blog.<br />
In the next Tip I will give you some more information on how you can enjoy a real life CFNM situation.</p>
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		<title>Tip #2 &#8211; Finding Women To Watch You</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 08:30:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, so in Tip #1 I explained what equipment you needed to be able to show your body off to girls on-line, and I also showed you how to do it with some of the gorgeous girls from the CFNM Cam Girls website. If you haven&#8217;t read Tip #1 yet, please do so and follow [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, so in Tip #1 I explained what equipment you needed to be able to show your body off to girls on-line, and I also showed you how to do it with some of the gorgeous girls from the <a href="http://www.cfnmcamgirls.com" target="_blank">CFNM Cam Girls</a> website. If you haven&#8217;t read Tip #1 yet, please do so and follow the instructions before trying the tips in this post.<br />
In today&#8217;s tip I am going to explain how you can get ordinary everyday women to watch you on-line.<br />
As I said in the previous post, the first thing we have to do is make sure that the person watching is happy to do so. But once we have ascertained this, there is a lot of fun and thrills to be had by exposing yourself to women on-line. However, the easy part is turning your cam on and taking your clothes off &#8211; the hard part is finding women who are happy to watch (without paying them &#8211; lol!).<br />
There are two main places that I go to find women to watch me on my cam. You can either go to webcam communities or you can try dating and social networking websites. Let&#8217;s start with webcam communities:- <span id="more-177"></span></p>
<p>WEBCAM COMMUNITIES<br />
There are lots of these around &#8211; basically they are websites which offer the ability to cam2cam with other people for free. You often have to download some software to be able to use the cam communities and once this is done you can access their User Groups (and yes a lot of them do have adult groups). The problem I have found with webcam communities is that LOTS of guys have thought about this already so there are loads of men on there with their cocks hanging out and only a much smaller percentage of women. As a result trying to get the women to watch you on cam can be difficult. However, give it a try and see how you get on. You can find the webcam communities by typing &#8220;webcam community&#8221; into Google but here are some of the ones I have used:-<br />
www.webcamnow.com<br />
www.ivideochat.com<br />
www.camfrog.com<br />
etc . . there are lots of them<br />
As I said above, on these webcam communities LOTS of guys have had the idea of going on there and wanking in front of a girl. You will need to be more subtle in your approach. &#8220;Watch me wank girls&#8221; is likely to get you very few visitors to your webcam session, whereas a more indepth explanation of how you always wanted to be a male stripper but weren&#8217;t sure if you were good enough, etc . . &#8220;if you had time to give me a quick appraisal on whether my body is good enough or not I would really appreciate it&#8221; &#8211; that sort of more subtle approach will do much better. That works well if you have a decent physique but you might have to take a different approach if you have a ber belly &#8211; lol! Just think outside the box and come at the women from a different angle.<br />
Also, try to be realistic. Just because it&#8217;s a webcam session rather than in real-life doesn&#8217;t mean that a stunning 22-year-old girl is going to want to watch a fat 50-year-old wank his 4 inch cock. Try to go for someone of similar age / interests, etc . . because you will need to get chatting to them before you whip your trousers down.</p>
<p>DATING SITES / SOCIAL NETWORKING SITES<br />
OK, I have found the dating sites to be a real gold-mine for finding women and girls willing to enjoy some CFNM action with me. What I do is this . . I join a dating site and set up a profile, complete with pictures of myself and a detailed profile description. In amongst this description I explain that I have been working out at the gym and have been told I should try being a male stripper but I am not sure if my body is good enough. Once the profile is complete, I then do a search of women in my area between a certain age (depending on your own age &#8211; as I said, keep it realistic and go for people around your age). I then start messaging each of these women with a brief message explaining that I have been training down the gym and getting some nice comments and that people have been telling me I should try being a male stripper. &#8220;I would really appreciate it if you could spare the time to take a look and tell me what you think&#8221;. This is a &#8220;softly softly&#8221; approach and works well because you are asking for their help and opinion for a possible career &#8211; not &#8220;can you watch me wank darling?&#8221; You will get quite a few responses using this approach and I then try to get them to chat on MSN or Yahoo Messenger with a view to me turning my cam on and showing off my physique. Again, when you get to this stage make sure you stay in character &#8211; if you&#8217;re supposed to be a male stripper you shouldn&#8217;t just take your clothes off and start wanking or you may find the webcam session closed down very quickly.<br />
What I do is put some music on and start stripping to the music so they think I am serious about the stripper thing (I even bought one of those stripper&#8217;s thongs so it looked legit &#8211; they are only about $15 on-line). You then strip off slowly, building the tension and soon they can&#8217;t wait to see what&#8217;s in the thong. It&#8217;s amazed me how many shy, housewife types will watch me on cam as a potential male stripper but then as soon as the thong comes off, all they want to see is my cock at full size (which of course involves wanking it). Then once you are stroking it (purely to show them what it looks like at full size of course!), you just slip in a few jokes about how you will get carried away if you do this much longer, and they normally say &#8220;get carried away then, I don&#8217;t mind&#8221;.<br />
I have even met up with girls in real life after they have watched me do stripteases in this fashion on-line. I do a striptease in their house until I am completely naked in their living rooms and gyrating inches in front of them with a hard-on &#8211; but I won&#8217;t tell you what happens next on those occasions . .  you wouldn&#8217;t be interested in that now would you &#8211; lol!</p>
<p>Please post comments to this post on any other ways you have had success getting women to watch you on-line.</p>
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		<title>Tip #1 &#8211; Try On-line first</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 08:30:57 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, so let&#8217;s get some things straight . .  when trying to experience CFNM in real life you have to be careful. Not all women think the sight of your naked body is as exciting as you do, so you can&#8217;t go round flashing your tackle at any old person or you will end up in jail pretty quickly &#8211; lol!<br />
We want this to be fun and exciting, but we also want it to be safe, so the first rule is make sure the person you are exposing yourself to isn&#8217;t going to get upset.<br />
If you are starting out and want to try a CFNM situation for the first time I would highly recommend getting your feet wet on-line first. The reasons for this are that it&#8217;s safer and you can easily stop at any time if you feel uncomfortable.<br />
It might seem like a wonderful idea when you are at home alone having a wank, but taking your clothes off for the first time in front of a clothed woman in real life (especially if you don&#8217;t know her) is a VERY different thing and conjurs up lots of feelings and emotions &#8211; some of which you would have expected and other you wouldn&#8217;t. <span id="more-164"></span><br />
You can expect to feel excited and aroused, but also a bit silly, embarrassed, nervous, etc . . which is why I would definitely recommend trying it on-line before attemtping a real life situation.<br />
OK, so let&#8217;s talk about how you go about having a CFNM situation on-line. Well, lots of people use Instant Messenging programs like MSN Messenger, Yahoo Messenger, ICQ, etc . . as well as other chat programs built into various dating and social networking sites. Obviously what you need in order to show yourself to someone over the internet is a webcam. So go and buy yourself one of these for starters. Try to get one with a mic built-in so you can talk to them as well (you will also need speakers or headphones if you don&#8217;t already have them). Get all the equipment set up and working BEFORE you try to show yourself to anyone. Nothing will kill the mood quicker than a webcam that doesn&#8217;t work.<br />
OK, so you are all set up and working and ready to go, now what? Well, I will be going into more detail on exactly HOW to get women to watch you in a more detailed post on exactly that subject, but for now I am going to talk about paid-for CFNM situations. Again, because this is your first time I don&#8217;t want you running off ans scaring every woman on the internet, so let&#8217;s start with girls who will be very happy to watch you (and also VERY attractive don&#8217;t forget!).<br />
There is a wonderful thrill stripping off and playing in front of a woman who is watching because she wants to rather than because she is getting paid, but there is also a wonderful thrill of stripping off and playing in front of a girl who is absolutely stunningly beautiful and staring straight at your cock as you ejaculate.<br />
So let&#8217;s start with this first. There is a website called <a href="http://www.cfnmcamgirls.com" target="_blank">CFNM Cam Girls</a> which caters for exactly this sort of interest. You can watch the girls&#8217; webcams for free (they don&#8217;t do anything naughty in the free chat but you can see what the girl looks like and how good her cam / internet connection is).<br />
You then sign up if there is someone you like the look of &#8211; you have to add credits to your account to sign up, but it&#8217;s only $29 or $69 (depending on how long you think you might want with the girl). Again, don&#8217;t be cheap and put $29 on your account and then get annoyed when you get cut off halfyway through your CFNM experience. The average price is about $2 / minute so you can normally get 35 minutes for $69 which is pretty good.<br />
Then you select the girl you want and enter her chat. I would explain to her that you want her to watch you rather than the other way around &#8211; I also tell them the things I like &#8211; lots of reactions and (if she has audio) talking about what she is watching as well. Then just enjoy yourself &#8211; lol!<br />
If you want some examples of sessions I have had on <a href="http://www.cfnmcamgirls.com" target="_blank">CFNM Cam Girls</a> just go to the Categories section at the top left of this blog and select CFNMCamGirls. This will bring up some videos I have made from sessions I have done on <a href="http://www.cfnmcamgirls.com" target="_blank">CFNM Cam Girls</a> &#8211; so you know this is all real and could be happening to you if you wanted it to.<br />
OK, so there you go, how to have your first CFNM experience on-line, safely and in the comfort of your own home.<br />
In future posts I will be explaining to you how to get girls to watch you for free on the internet, but give <a href="http://www.cfnmcamgirls.com" target="_blank">CFNM Cam Girls</a> a go to get you started &#8211; enjoy!</p>
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		<title>My first real CFNM experience</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 08:30:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, so to get the &#8220;CFNM Tips&#8221; section started I thought I would tell you how I first got interested in CFNM and the real-life experience behind it.
The first time I realised what CFNM was around 2003 when I stumbled across it on the internet. HOWEVER, without me even realising it, I actually discovered many [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, so to get the &#8220;CFNM Tips&#8221; section started I thought I would tell you how I first got interested in CFNM and the real-life experience behind it.<br />
The first time I realised what CFNM was around 2003 when I stumbled across it on the internet. HOWEVER, without me even realising it, I actually discovered many years earlier when I was only 13 years old. Looking back on what happened, it was clear to me that I had had a CFNM experience &#8211; it was just I never knew it until I found out what CFNM was many years later.<br />
So what happened? Well, you may not find it overly hardcore but it is real and it happened and it was a big turn-on &#8211; even then at 13! What is worth noting in this story is that the way in which it happened can easily be replicated in every day life &#8211; so keep your whits about you and something like this could even happen to you.<br />
So I was 13 and playing in the soccer team. We were playing an away match against another school and so we were in a strange locker room that I hadn&#8217;t been in before. I had played really well but pulled up with cramp 10 minutes before the end so was hobbling about. As a result I was well behind the other guys in getting showered and changed. The last guy, I remember his name was Simon, shouted to me to hurry up as they were all on the coach already and then he left and I was on my own. I was standing there with my underwear on only and was just about to put my trousers on when I heard girls voices outside. My immediate reaction (I was 13 remember!) was panic and I quickly pulled my trousers up. I stood there on my own for a minute or so and I heard the voices getting nearer. I don&#8217;t know what happened or why I did it buy I dropped my trousers again so I was just there in my underwear. <span id="more-160"></span><br />
All of a sudden these two girls came round the corner of the locker room. They saw me standing there in my underwear, froze and then burst out laughing and ran out. I pretended it had been an accident and that I was trying to get my trousers on but I was actually really excited that they had seen me like that. What was strange though was that the girls didn&#8217;t completely leave. I could hear them outside still laughing and then shouting comments to me like &#8220;we like your pants&#8221; and &#8220;get it off&#8221;. I was worried that one of the guys might come back in and see what was taking me so long so I quickly got dressed. Just as I was about to walk out, Simon came back in and said &#8220;come on mate, what&#8217;s taking so long&#8221;. We headed out the door together and I could see the girls about 10 metres away. They started laughing and pointing again as we headed out but Simon, not knowing what had happened, told them to &#8220;shut up&#8221; and we left.<br />
So that&#8217;s it &#8211; not particularly hardcore I know but very arousing for a 13-year-old boy with no experience of girls. And so began my fascination with CFNM. My only regret looking back on it was that I hadn&#8217;t pulled my underwear down as well so they got to see everything!</p>
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