OK, from my previous tips you have hopefully now got a few women that you have chatted to on-line and you have maybe even stripped for them on cam. This either then involved them giving you their opinion on your body and “equipment” or maybe you even went as far as playing with yourself for them. Providing the wanking was instigated in the right way and either approved or encouraged by them then it’s not a bad thing. You can always say afterwards how embarrassed you are and that you have never done anything like that for anyone else, etc . . which will help because she will feel special and that she somehow has power to make you do things.
Anyway, if they like your body and the show you put on for them then the ultimate goal for you is to do the same show for them in real life – not just on the webcam.
Be careful how you suggest this though because most women (quite rightly) will have their security paramount in their mind and won’t just invite a stranger round their house because he has a nice looking cock. Make sure you get chatting to them for a bit before you suggest this so you can win their confidence (and don’t betray it obviously – I am giving you these tips so you can enjoy CFNM fun NOT so you can con your way into people’s houses!). Say something like “I am really pleased you liked my show, I am still keen on being a male stripper but I have never done anything like that in front of a real person and I am not sure what it would be like as it is more personal than on a webcam – I really need to find someone willing to watch me in real life next.” If you have put the ground work in and she trusts you then there’s the possibility she will offer her services. Sounds unlikely? Well I can tell you for a fact that in the last two years alone I have visited the houses of over a dozen women that I have met on-line, stripped for on webcam and then ended up stripping for them in real life at their houses. This wouldn’t have happened if they had thought I was in any way dodgy or untrustworthy so I managed to create that trust before I suggested it. Let me tell you what happened the first time I did a real life strip at one of these women’s houses (and it’s a 100% true story):-
I had met Jan on one of the dating sites in my usual fashion. I had messaged her because she lived within an hour of my house and was only a few years older than me, “single and looking”. I messaged her about wanting to be a stripper and she said she would watch me and let me know what she thought. Anyway, to cut a long story short, I did the webcam strip for her on a Sunday afternoon with her watching on her webcam (so I got to see what she looked like as well – not a stunner, but certainly not ugly either – a standard separated housewife type really). I could see her face light up as I stripped off and she obviouly thought my package was a good size as her face looked impressed. She seemed to enjoy it so much that I carried on chatting to her standing there naked and I suggested that the next “big” step for my career would be to strip in real life for someone. To my amazement and excitement she volunteered immediately! Rather than me counting my lucky stars, it was her who kept saying “so you would really come round my place and do the same full monty show I just saw?” I told her she would be doing me a favour, acting as a practice audience and after checking how far away I lived she asked me if I was free to come round right then! I tried to look hesitant but eagerly said yes and she gave me the address and I got myself ready and jumped in the car.
When I arrived, she seemed really nice -as I said, she was no stunner, but had a really nice flirty way about her. We chatted a bit nervously and she got us some wine and said she couldn’t believe I was actually there and how excited she was. I tried to play it cool but I was VERY nervous. She showed me her CD collection and I picked out a CD and put it on and told her to get on the couch and relax (I took her wine and put it out the way before I started as I planned on her needing her hands!) I had worn standard clothes, not any sort of special costume, but I did have my special strippers thong on that I had ordered on-line. These are great for really exaggerating the size of your package so I highly recommend them!
I started dancing in front of her and she giggled nervously. When I started undoing my shirt and took it off her eyes were glued. As I undid my trousers and she saw the thong her eyes nearly burst out of her head – because this was my first time doing this I was quite excited and my cock was fully hard and bulging against the thin thong material which she could plainly see. It got me even more hard to see her eyes glued to my groin with an amazed smile on her face. I took my trousers off and danced in front of her with just the thong on – judging by her face she was loving the view so I decided to be daring and turned around and grabbed her hands and placed them on my ass.
I was worried this would put her off but it did exactly the opposite! She started giving my ass a good fondle and before I knew what was happening I felt her hand on the front of my thong. As she touched my bulge I heard her say “wow and this nearly made me shoot right there and then. I turned to face her and watched as she placed her hands on my thong again and fully fondled my cock through the thing material. I asked her if I would do well as a stripper and she said I would earn a fortune, giggling as she carried on rubbing. I took a step back and grabbed the two sides of the thong which had velcro attachments on them. I watched her face as I pulled the velcro and my cock sprang loose for the first time. Her eyes lit up and she bit her lip as I threw tht thong away and gyrated there in front of her completely naked.
I slowly danced nearer and nearer to her and once I was within reach she didn’t hesitate in reaching out and grabbing my cock with her hand again. This time she started to slowly stroke it and I stopped dancing and let out a little sigh of pleasure. She looked up at me and giggled, then pulled me forward and took me in her mouth! I couldn’t believe this was actually happening – some strange woman that I had never met until a few hours earlier had invited me round, watched me strip naked and was now giving me a blowjob. She had obviously enjoyed the show because she really started to get into it and looked up at me and said “you don’t mind do you?” before carrying on sucking. I am not ashamed to say that I didn’t last long. As I felt my orgasm building I told her I was about to cum in case she didn’t want me to cum in her mouth but she only sucked harder and I felt myself ejaculate down her throat as she sucked every last drop from my cock. It was pure heaven!
As my orgasm subsided I must admit I felt a bit silly, standing there naked with my cock in the mouth of a woman I didn’t know, but she patted me on the bottom and told me I had done a wonderful job. I will be honest, I didn’t stay long after that but I wanted to keep the door open for future sessions and told her what a wonderful time I had had and that I didn’t normally get that excited with other women, etc . . she told me to keep in touch and maybe next time she would get some friends round.
The above story is 100% true and I have had other adventures with girls I have met in real life after stripping for them on cam. As I said, I am 100% honest on this blog so I will admit to you that not all my private strips ended in sexual action. Some of the women did actually just want me to strip, give their opinion on my physiqye and then have me leave – which I did, because you should ALWAYS respect the woman’s wishes. But even those ones aroused me enough that I had a fantastic wank when I got home afterwards thinking about how this strange woman had seen my cock.

If you manage to have any real life CFNM situations please post your experiences here as comments – if they are long enough / interesting enough I can always add them as a post in their own right on this blog.
In the next Tip I will give you some more information on how you can enjoy a real life CFNM situation.

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